Counselling, Psychotherapy & Clinical Supervision
in Surbiton and online
Every journey begins with a single step...
ABOUT COUNSELLING
Life is full of ups and downs, and getting some professional support during the tougher times can make all the difference. Sitting alone with our worries and pain can feel unbearable, yet when we share them within the safety of a warm and trusting relationship, things start to feel more manageable. I’d like to reassure you that whatever you bring to counselling, I will provide a warm, compassionate and respectful space where we can explore your thoughts and feelings together without judgment, going at a pace you feel comfortable with.
Perhaps you want to talk to a counsellor in order to come to terms with something that has happened to you, or maybe you feel your problems run at a deeper level - unexplained feelings or unhelpful relationship patterns, for example. Psychotherapy is about getting to know yourself better, with a view to understanding how you help to construct the world around you.
Together we will identify your patterns of relating to those around you, and in turn how others tend to respond to you. We will look at how you deal with difficult feelings such as anxiety, anger or grief, and why this might be. If necessary, I can help you find ways to process such feelings in a more constructive way. We will explore your belief systems and your defence structures, so that you can decide which still serve you well, and which may no longer be necessary or helpful. And I will support you as you develop a more compassionate relationship with yourself - by far the most important relationship any of us have.
But perhaps the most significant thing I can offer you is meaningful contact with another person who understands the complexity of what it means to be human - to sometimes feel scared or anxious, sad or angry, guilty or alone.
Why not come along for a chat and see how we can work together to make things better?
HOW MANY SESSIONS WILL I NEED?
This depends on so many factors. If after an initial session we decide we're a good fit, I usually suggest we start by meeting once a week for six weeks. After this time you may feel you would like a break to consolidate your experience, or you may feel you'd like to stop. Most people however, decide to continue on a weekly, fortnightly, or as-and-when basis. I try to work as flexibly as possible to accommodate your needs, time and budget.
WHAT DOES IT COST?
£65 per 50-minute session*. Please note that a 50% cancellation fee is always charged, regardless of the reason, for sessions cancelled or missed with less than 48 hours' notice. *Concessions are sometimes available - please ask.
WHAT BRINGS YOU HERE?
There are so many reasons why people come to therapy.
Issues I frequently work with include (but are not limited to):
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship problems (incl. affairs and relationship breakdowns)
'Mid-life crises'
Parenting concerns (incl. becoming a parent, antenatal anxiety and post-natal depression)
Bereavement & loss (incl. baby loss)
Low self-esteem
Emotional numbness
Feeling stuck or frozen
Being 'the bad guy'
A sense of repeating the same old mistakes
Issues around gender, sex and sexuality
Hopelessness
Low mood without knowing the cause
Life 'ennui'
Finding meaning/purpose
Difficulty managing anger
Feeling different/separate to others
Self-sabotaging behaviour
Stress
Loneliness
ABOUT ME
I've been a fully qualified counsellor since 2009 and currently divide my time between my private practice in Surrey (and online) and my work at St Thomas' Hospital in London with PETALS, where I support parents who have suffered a stillbirth, late miscarriage or neo-natal death.
I am an accredited member of the British Association For Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and I adhere to its Ethical Framework. I am also on the Professional Standards Authority Accredited Register, and my work is supervised by an experienced practitioner. All client identities are, of course, kept anonymous.
My training and counselling style is integrative, which means I can draw on a range of psychological theories as appropriate. These include CBT (which focuses on our behaviour, challenges the meaning we attribute to thoughts, and offers practical techniques for coping with anxiety, depression, paranoia, low self-esteem and so on); psychodynamic theory (where our childhood experiences continue to influence our adult responses, often out of our awareness); humanistic theory (where a non-prescriptive, warm, non-judgmental and authentic relationship between you and I can be sufficient for healing), existential theory (an exploration into how you give meaning to, and make sense of, your own life) and working with parts (where we get to know the different parts of you - that are often in conflict with each other - so that you can develop a stronger, more peaceful relationship with yourself).
When it comes to effective counselling however, I believe that above all it's the quality of the relationship between you and I that will be the most important factor in facilitating change. It's really important that you feel comfortable with your choice of therapist, and for that reason I would encourage you to try out a few of us.
QUALIFICATIONS
First Class Honours degree in Integrative-Relational Counselling
Cert. HE in Counselling & Counselling Skills
LOCATIONS
VICTORIA, SW1
From 2022 I am no longer taking
on new clients in this location
SURBITON
My counselling room is a stone’s throw from Surbiton station
UPDATE 2023: Please note that my practice is at full capacity. I will update here when I am in a position to take on new clients. Thank you for your interest.
CONTACT ME
If you have any questions about counselling, supervision, or how I work, please use the form here to get in touch. All correspondence will be treated confidentially.
UPDATE September 2023: Thank you for your interest in my website. Unfortunately my private practice is at full capacity. I will update here when I am in a position to take on new clients.